Can I just box my feelings up and pretend they don't exist?
Pry them from my fingertips,
Just out of reach
Understanding the way my face looks
Tearstained and tracked with
Harmful notes written by
People who don't even know they're hurting me
I can withstand
the silence
If only you have forgotten about me
(Could you ever forget about me)
I'm spending so much time reaching for
the gaps between our lives
Hundreds of miles or maybe even continents
Or even a twenty minute drive
Going out of my way to exist in the spaces between your letters
Can I be the punctuation of a life you want?
I think of myself as the skimmed over semicolon; or pe
“are you still in love with her?”
I mean, probably.
I'm aching
For a wife who was never mine,
Good morning kisses, tiny and soft,
My hand in your hair as I drive
Laundry not done and dinners together on the couch.
You were my whole fucking world,
Twenty times over and ten hellos and seven goodbyes
Goodbye
I wasn't ready
I never wanted the 24- hour exhaustion of
Living
Without you
I never wanted the tattoo on my hand to belong an unmatched set
I never wanted you to wake up in another’s arms
I'm happy
But I'm still grieving
Carrying you around like an ache I need to learn how to make room for
(You're allowed to live in
Gender is a social construct
Built by the pink smoking billowing from my expectant friend's gender reveal party
Are you revealing their gender,
Or just which box they're going to have to break out of?
Are you revealing what's between an unborn child's legs
For any other reason
Than inlaws and friends know
What colour onesie to buy,
Or whether to buy dolls or toy cars? Does their
Physiological sex
Have anything to do with who that child will be
Because the only thing you need to reveal is
Will that child be healthy? How will you keep them safe and happy?
Can you educate them, support them, allow them to enable themselves and
Their mental
I.
I know the day blue became my favourite colour.
I had it inked in red on my skin,
Praying through my tears that it would scar.
Now I still separate out the blue things in my life to cherish
Your lips tasting like separated blue m&m's and my heart
Lining every red email between us unscarred
I stopped loving you
As soon as you loved me back.
(My blood still runs blue through my veins.
Do you think of me still,
In the scarred shadows of your heart?)
II.
I'll never forget the blush dusting your cheeks
as you linked pinkies with me outside the library;
It wasn't quite cold, but your hands warmed mine.
I held onto that warmth
as time crawled
Let me
spend hours drawing my soul in stolen ink pens across
The incredible gentility of your arms,
holding
Onto your future
Onto a future intertwined together
I am drunk and the world can spin as much as it fucking wants to but
you've come into my life like the stars: suddenly,
a light in a darkness that snuck up like a sun descending into shadow
I long to know your softness against mine
I long to lie tangent to your warmth
I long to discover the constellations configured inside you
You have so much to you and you don't even know
You don't even know
Your heart has impacted mine
Overhead, the whales hum,
Surrounded by clouds of shimmering fish,
I have been in waters almost as cold but
your fingers brush warm across my skin;
And I am reaching for the contained fountains, manmade around rocks
That aren't really rocks: it strikes me that
You
are the realest
They say there are plenty of fish in the sea,,;
I have found you, a treasure of the deep.
Penguins mate for life. In their flightless lives,
they provide warmth to each other reflected
in the shimmering pebbles passed
From lover to lover, like the words
emerging from our lips across tongues memorising
The taste of the letters. I will speak
Prayers in the chill
The moment we hung up,
The red seas parted and the floodgates opened
I didn't know being apart from someone for five days
Four and a half, really
Meant sobbing at six am because I miss you
Meant wearing a ring and your heart wrapped around my finger
Meant flicking through the pictures of us, lip to lip,
and the ache in my heart burns,
stretching on into infinity
(almost as far as our love)
December and your arms are way too fucking far away
I just need you
To cling to you
Every edge of my heart fits to yours
and I can't stand the way it feels
When I can't touch you
Can't bury my hands in your hair
Or melt into your arms curling around my
I feel like I can't talk to you
without worrying it will be the last;;;
how am I supposed to do this
how am I supposed to be a good partner for you
My heart cannot hold all of this ache
The pieces of me breaking down to build a wall for you,
To shield you, to protect you
how can I protect you from yourself?
how can I protect you when you're not yourself?
I am tired of them taking over and destroying you
I am tired of them hurting you
I want to pull you into my arms, hip to hip
And heart to heart
And battle all your demons until you're you and I'm
So fucking in love with you and it hurts
More than anything I've ever done
(I can't walk a
the sky when I fell in love with you
Illuminates every corner of my heart:;;;,,,
The clouds part for you
And reveal rainbows of vibrance
You look at me with the intensity of the rising sun
And I am mourning our separation
You're the perfect warmth, holding all the pieces of me in your arms
And loving me like I'm whole